Don't Believe In what You Hear Unless and Until You see
Dr Archana Jain Is an Entrepreneur, Fashion Model , Social Activist and An author here she shares her view how to lead a successful life Worth Reading by Archana Jain
Let them judge you.
Let them misunderstand you.
Let them gossip about you.
Their opinions aren't your problem.
You stay kind, committed to love,
and free in your authenticity.
No matter what they do or say,
Don't you dare doubt about your worth or the beauty of your truth.
Just keep on shining like you do.
Five Tips to Follow To lead successful life
1)Choose your Surroundings Wisely
must always choose to surround yourself with those who can positively influence you and you will find yourself to be much more content. This works in regards to success as well. If you have significant monumental dreams and ambitions, which if you're human, you do -if you surround yourself with small minded individuals, or ones who have given up, you will find yourself thinking like them, feeling that you are incapable of fulfilling your full potential. They will only drag you down. With the right habits, influences from people, and attitude, we can get anything we want out of life. Control your Surroundings, control your life. Make your life easier and surround yourself with people that lift you up and bring you more happiness, for it is better to be alone than in bad company.
2)Know who to hang with
There are many types of people we will meet in our lives. Most of the people which we encounter are only meant to be there for short periods of time, while others are intended to be there for long periods of time. One of the most significant conflicts that we come across in our lives is when we try to make short-term individuals into long-term friends. When we realize that the people that were meant to be there long term, we chose to cut off too quickly, we realize that we lost something significant. One of the most defining things in your lives that separates the real from the fake is when we endure the low points or hardships during our lives. Everyone wants to be our friend and kick it with us when we're up, but very few choose to ride with us while we're down. There is an old saying that goes, "Everyone wants to be in your circle, but not everyone wants to be in your corner." Another way to thin out the herd is to start asking for favors directly and you will begin to see who is genuinely riding for you. One of the major concepts that I think we all genuinely need to realize is that we all wish to be liked and accepted, but it is better to have five genuine friends than 100 fake friends. Always remember that the people that we choose to surround ourselves with determines our quality of life, and it is always about quality over quantity.
3) Don't Go Everywhere or Anywhere for Success
Unsuccessful people don’t value their time. They are everywhere, anywhere, anytime because they lack the ability to dedicate their time towards their goals. And year after year they make new promises which never come to fruition simply because they couldn’t be bothered to put in the time required towards their goals. Management of Your worth and Time is Important watch it before you see someone else Posters and Jump into it to be called as Celebrity Guest as Fake success. Work for it and then the plate is all yours make it happen for u.
4)Always Maintain a Positive Mental Attitude
Replace negative thoughts with the positive ones. You need to approach problems, not as obstacles stopping you, but merely tasks that need to be completed for you to keep going. If you stay positive and think like this, setbacks won’t affect you so much, people’s doubts won’t impact you and even the biggest obstacles will seem like minor problems. However with the wrong mindset of doubt, you’ll be much easier to stop.
5) Be motivated, not competitive.
Instead of feeling jealous or competitive when comparing yourself to someone else, you should instead turn that emotion into inspiration and/or motivation. The next time you find yourself comparing yourself to someone, you could think about how you could possibly do something similar (only if that’s what you truly want to do, of course). You can use their achievements as inspiration for your own life and goals. As you can see, comparing yourself to someone else doesn’t have to be entirely bad, as long as you use that process for positives means.
6) Stay Royal and Loyal
For success we tend to jump from one place to another forgetting our base and roots. Never Get lost in the Glitters of today's world and lose the gold it can create a long term damage be focused and calm. Upgrade Yourself every minute and learn from own mistake . Be Classy and Powerful by Maintaining the Basic Protocol of Life . By stomping on someone else you can't be successful as karma is a bitch and it pays back harder so make sure we keep our intention clear , before throwing words for others watch out as it can come back to you.
